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Trans dating, with respect built in
For trans women, trans men, non-binary people and anyone who wants to meet them with respect. Get dressed up, go out, flirt, hook up or explore at your own pace, with adults who see the person first.
- Trans women
- Trans men
- Non-binary people
- People who respect them
Who’s joining the fun?
Tap one and you’re straight into your free sign-up.
- Trans or non‑binaryOr another identity. Choose the words that fit you at sign-up.
- A womanEvery woman is welcome, trans or cis.
- A manEvery man is welcome, trans or cis.
- A coupleJoin together, on terms you both agree.
Free to join. Adults 18+ only. Your location shows as your nearest town only.
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Come as you are. Meet people who get it.
Here, being trans or non-binary isn’t a niche or a novelty. It’s simply who you are, and the people worth meeting already know that.
Trans women and trans men
Sign up as who you are. Choose “A woman” or “A man”, or pick Trans Female or Trans Male from the full list. Then say what kind of night you’re in the mood for.
Non-binary and gender-diverse
The identity list at sign-up goes well beyond two options, from non-binary and genderfluid to genderqueer, agender and Two-Spirit. Use the word that fits.
People who want to meet you
Attracted to trans or non-binary people? You’re welcome, as long as you lead with respect and curiosity, not assumptions.
Respect isn’t optional here
- Ask, don’t assumeUse the name and pronouns someone gives you. Not sure? Ask, kindly, and then get it right.
- Their body, their storyQuestions about someone’s body, medical history or transition are theirs to answer, or not. Wait to be invited.
- People, not fantasiesFlirt with the person in front of you. Messages that reduce anyone to a body part or a category get reported, and blocked.
- Never out anyoneWhat someone shares with you stays with you. No screenshots, no passing details on.
- Consent, alwaysAgree on what’s on the table before you meet, and remember that anyone can change their mind at any point.
How sign-up works
Tap “Trans or non-binary” at the top of the page and you’ll see the full identity list: Trans Female, Trans Male, Non-Binary and more. Or simply choose “A woman” or “A man”. Then pick who you’d like to meet, including non-binary people, and the kind of fun you’re after. Whether and when you share your history is entirely your call.
- Daily match suggestions that take gender identity and preferences into account
- With VIP, filter by distance, city, how experienced people are and what they’re open to
- Unlimited messaging, chat rooms and “see who likes you” (VIP)
- Optional ID and video verification, so people know you’re real
Safe to be yourself
Nobody sees more than your username and the nearest town or city. One tap blocks someone, and anything that crosses the line can be reported. Slurs, harassment and objectifying messages have no place here.
Trans dating: your questions
Who is this for?
Trans women, trans men, non-binary and gender-diverse people, and anyone who wants to meet them with respect. It’s part of an adult casual dating site, so expect flirting, hookups and no-strings fun, always between consenting adults.
How do I sign up as trans or non-binary?
Tap “Trans or non-binary” at the top of this page and you’ll see the full identity list: Trans Female, Trans Male, Non-Binary and more. If you’d rather, simply choose “A woman” or “A man”. Either way, it’s your call.
Do I have to tell people I’m trans?
No. What you share about your history, and when, is entirely up to you. Some people say it in their profile so conversations start on honest footing; others wait. Both are fine.
I’m attracted to trans or non-binary people. Is this for me?
Yes, if you lead with respect. Say clearly in your profile who you’re hoping to meet, use the name and pronouns people give you, and let them decide what they share about their body or transition. Treat people as people, not as a fantasy.
What happens if someone is disrespectful?
Block them in one tap and report the profile or message. Our moderation team works around the clock, and slurs, harassment and objectifying messages have no place here.
What does it cost?
Nothing to join. With a free profile you can browse, receive daily matches and send a limited number of messages every day. Upgrading to VIP, from $19.99 per week in the US, means unlimited messages and extra filters, and VIP Plus begins at $22.99 per week. Your local currency (USD, GBP, CAD or AUD) is shown at checkout.
Ready for a night out with people who get it?
Your profile takes a few minutes, in your own words. Who you flirt with, and what happens next, is up to you.
Count me in, it’s free